Influential man returns to critics to humiliate her childless vacation
Australian lifestyle influencers Ashy Bines Messages are being sent to haters who criticized her for going on vacation without children.
“Stop living for everyone else!” Bines wrote via Instagram on Wednesday, April 30: “People will tell you how to live, what are the problems with you and your life, and project your own “rules” and beliefs onto you. If you live on their rulebook, you will never be truly happy or free to be you.”
She continued: “Some of my comments when I was in Bali include: ‘You should be with your family.’ “Good moms don’t leave their kids behind during the holidays. ” “Such selfish mom and partner. ” “Poor Steve lets the kids themselves while you relax in Bali. ” “Mom shouldn't be so embarrassing to wear it!” ” 🫠🙈.”
Bines flocked to her husband, Steven Evansis “incredible support” and “very capable, hands-on father”. (The couple shared 2-year-old daughter Tara and 9-year-old son Taj Mahal.)
“I refuse to live my own life or ignore my needs because of other people's ideas. I don't let myself end up or stop spending time with friends, go on vacation or pursue my passion just because people label me as a selfish or bad mom.”
She continued: “Just because you are a mom, it doesn't mean you can't have fun. Relax 🧘. Spend time with friends. Pursuing passion or hobbies 💃.
Bines shared that she wants her children to see her “embrace all these aspects of life so that they understand what they are normal, important, and should do for themselves.”
“I want them to prioritize their mental health, their body, their energy and their relationships with their partners, friends and others who are important to them,” she added. “I want them to explore their life, the world and themselves without innocence or shame. So, yes, I will do all of the above and have a great time doing it!”
She concluded: “Bali Day 3 – I want to enjoy every moment, recharge my battery, relax and connect with my girls.”
In the video, Bines dances in an orange floral dress and blows a kiss when she sees the pool in the background. “Your choice of life means nothing to anyone but you,” she wrote on the edit.
