A friend unexpectedly joined a woman's personal trip, and now she is not sure what to do

• After a woman is in a uncomfortable situation with her friend, ask a red patrol consultant for advice

• The woman is planning her two-month trip to Asia and invites any friend to cross the road with her at any time

• However, a friend invited the invitation too far

A woman is connecting with the Reddit community for support after her carefully planned solo.

The 20-year-old poster has been organizing two months of adventure throughout Asia for the past six months and booking flights and accommodations in advance.

“I always see this as my trip – something I do alone, but can overlap with friends here or there.” Her journey would have been a personal experience, although she doesn't mind the idea of ​​crossing the road with others.

Things get complicated when a 30-year-old male friend is also interested in traveling. “In person, I said maybe we could overlap if he had time,” she recalled, but she added, nothing was there.

Later, when he asked for her itinerary, she shared it, but did not work hard with him planning or asking for his input. “I've made most of the arrangements myself,” she said, stressing that her plan was completed.

Her friend revealed that traveling started in less than a week, and he revealed that he had booked a flight to follow her route. “He's been sick for a while, so I'm not even sure he's still going,” she wrote, surprised her last-minute confirmation.

Her friends were upset when she clarified that she still planned to travel alone instead of as a couple. He quoted an ancient message, and she said, “It’s as much as I travel,” using it as evidence that she misleads him.

The poster clarified that she made only this comment when he slowly confirmed his plan for illness. “We never planned anything together, and we never had a conversation about traveling. He just adopted my itinerary,” she shared.

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Her friend expressed disappointment, saying he wouldn't have booked the same route if he knew they weren't traveling together. The poster admits that she feels sad about her disappointment and apologizes for not having a clearer performance.

Still, she questioned whether she should blame her assumptions she had never communicated. “He didn’t ask questions, had no help plan, and had to choose a country that overlapped rather than imitating my full two-month trip.”

The commenter told her to take care of herself.

One said, “It’s really creepy.” If you can, change your itinerary and stop him. “No 30-year-old man travels with a 20-year-old girl. Heck, I'm a 30-year-old girl and I'm really weird about booking a trip with a 20-year-old girl unless she invites me to be with her very much, even if your age is quite a bit older than mine, unless you have a sufficiently large friend, my age is weird. “Overlapping” travel is a huge red flag.”

Another added: “His courage to join your trip didn't really ask you, and then when you clarified that it was your trip and that you were solo was…I can't even. You might want to rethink your friendship with this person. I promise his intentions were not pure.”

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